Siblings keep secrets. Ethan was fourteen and he kept a secret for eleven months. That’s an incredible burden for a child. It taught me to keep a closer eye on all of my children and to make sure they feel safe talking to me.
Healing takes time. Grief doesn’t have a timeline. It’s not linear. Eleven months after Emily vanished, we were still grieving. And we’re still grieving now.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is Emily okay?
As far as we know, she is. We’ve had indirect confirmation that she’s alive and safe. But we haven’t spoken to her.
Do you know where she is?
We have a general idea of the city she went to, but we don’t have her address or contact information.
Have you tried to contact her?
We’ve left messages on social media and through mutual friends. She hasn’t responded.
Do you blame Ethan?
No. Ethan was a child, and Emily manipulated him into keeping her secret. We’re angry at Emily, not at him.