Emotional fragmentation in some men
Many specialists explain that, psychologically, some men function as if several parts of their personality were acting at the same time
We can simplify it into three dimensions:
1. The social person
He is the man who shows the world:
responsible, kind, hardworking and committed.
It is the part that can truly love you.
2. The shadow
It is the side that holds repressed impulses, impulsive desires, rebellion, or insecurity.
When this part is not integrated, it seeks to free itself in some way.
3. The ideal projection
Many men have an idealized image of women in their minds. When they find someone who fits that fantasy, they can feel intensely attracted to her even if they are already in a relationship.
When these three parts are not in balance, an internal conflict occurs .
That’s why, in some cases, a man can love his partner and still end up making decisions that damage the relationship.
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3. Trying to completely change the other person
We all have imperfect aspects.
However, when a person tries to eliminate or completely control certain parts of their partner, it can generate internal resistance.
Emotional maturity does not consist of repressing the other person’s personality, but in learning to integrate it in a healthy way.
When someone feels constantly judged or corrected, they may seek acceptance elsewhere.
Four psychological signs that may appear before infidelity
There are certain behaviors that, according to many specialists, tend to appear before a breach of trust.
1. He begins to separate his life into “compartments”
You may begin to have areas of your life that you no longer talk about:
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separate social circles
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conversations he avoids
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activities that he keeps completely private
It doesn’t always mean infidelity, but it does indicate emotional distance.
